OBSERVATIONS
I've been living in Spain for a mere ten days, and it honestly feels like I've been here a
month half year.
Seriously. It's nuts.
When I think back, a week ago we were still settling in and just getting a feel for the place. I hardly know
Correos (the center of the town where we meet) and couldn't even tell you where the nearest Tapas Bar was (
Luckily, as I soon found off, the correct answer to that question is about three bars every five shops. Seriously.).
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| And thus began our adventure. Bonus points if you can tell which glass is mine. |
Let me first just start and say that many Americans, if not most, come to Europe with stereotypes and generalizations. I'm gonna go off and say right off the bat that, especially as one of the younger generations, many of them concern a more liberal use of alcohol. So far, from what I've seen, the expectations are true, yet false at the exact same time.
ALCOHOL
Yes, the legal drinking age here is 16-18, depending where you go, though I've never been asked for an ID when ordering. Yes, you can drink in the streets, though that is changing in Spain, as you can't be a ravenous band of drunkards waking everyone up those few souls who
actually go to bed before three AM. This should sound like common sense, but behind every common sense law there is an incident of beyond-imaginable stupidity that led to it. Also, alcohol is a lot more accessible everywhere, to everyone. Like, I've found it's easier to walk into a restaurant/bar and order a beer than say, a coffee. Alcohol is just a staple of life here, which is fine, assuming you're not dumb with it.
On the contrary, alcohol does NOT fuel all the parties - for the natives. That's more of the tourist thing, to which the natives flock to in an attempt to impress; it works about half the time. The nightlife here is huge. I've never been walking around at four thirty in the morning and seen as many people outside and still moving around. Granted, I come from Midwest Suburbia, so I could just be a little sheltered, but bar the few major global cities in America, few places in America I've been to can compare to the dedication and night schedule Spaniards have. Parties don't
start until two AM and can easily run until 8 AM (I have not yet conquered the six hour party challenge; results pending.). As first mentioned, it's not the alcohol that makes the party I've noticed, it's the fellowship of having your best friends around you, knowing the city places to be and being surrounded by likewise people, and everyone looking
mighty fine.
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| Approximate BAC after picture, 0.000001%. Nothing after. Carry on. |
LOOKING FINE
Which brings me to my next point. People in Spain, and I'm making an educated guess that this applies to most/all of Europe as well, take dressing well very seriously. Sure, there might be a ~27% unemployment rate and a worse underemployed rate, but at least they look good. Sheesh. Really. Buy a scarf; that's my one recommendation to those visiting Europe. We Americans, while we pride ourselves on being number one in many categories, do not come close to the dress level of Europeans. Again, it's just culture.
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| Did I nail it?! #prepartyselfie |
Oh gosh. I just posted a selfie....
LUNCH
You don't mess with lunch. If, for whatever impossible reason that exists, you cannot attend family lunch, you proceed to write your last will and testament before heading to the store, purchasing the most expensive roses possible, and go home to explain to your parents (begging on your knees), why their lunch isn't good enough.
Okay, that might be a little exaggeration, but the rumors floating around the ever-busy American work schedule about Spanish siestas are totally true. The city does quite literally shut down from the hours of 2 PM to 5 PM, bar some of the larger private businesses and essential government services. Lunch is the time to come together as a family and share what's happened so far. The funny thing is, by 5 PM in America, we'd be calling it a day, but many return to work, staying open till about ten or so. This also is probably why Spain's nightlife starts so late (2 AM). It's weird, especially coming from one of the busiest nations on earth, but it works, strange enough.
STREET CRED INTERACTIONS
Lastly, the street culture here is so vast, yet so impersonal. Eye contact with strangers and "perdoname"'s (excuse me's) are exceedingly rare, and indulging in them simply labels you a foreigner. I guess I never really thought about how polite Americans are, and within America, how
nice Minnesotans are. They don't call it Minnesota nice for nothing.
On the flip side, when you know someone, personal space becomes a myth of the past. Kisses are frequent for greetings, and expect to be having a conversation a mere foot - if that - from your face when talking. It takes some getting used to, but hey, at least they look good when you have to stare at them, right?!
In the future, let's see if I can be a little more persistent in updating this.
Jacob